Superwoman
I know I promised donuts today.
I lied.
I realized that I need more than donuts in order to feel a little more balanced in my life.
How many moms are shaking your heads right now? I hear those rattles. Or maybe it’s the Lego that mysteriously made its way into my mug of tea and that I’m too lazy to fish out.
I’ve been burning my candle at both ends and it’s showing.
So today I’m reprioritizing and not feeling a bit guilty about hanging up my cape. I’ve been meaning to hang it up more often, knowing that you all would understand and maybe even cheer, and tonight seemed like as good of a night as any.
(It has very little to do with the fact that there’s a new Modern Family on.)
I need eight hours of sleep. Every night.
I need less coffee (again).
I need more glowing green smoothies.
Donuts will happen tomorrow and we all will survive.
Plus, I had unexpected company today.
And you don’t just send a visitor away because you have to bake donuts.
Especially when that visitor is putting her hands on her hips with the most determined look you’ve ever seen and saying, “I am SUPERWOMAN!”
Someone has to be today.
I’m just glad it’s not me.
Oh mah gahhhh that last photo of Lu!!!!
Serious.
Great pictures
The last one is just priceless – it will be so fun to look back on in years to come!
Or blackmail…
HA! Very true
I think I need to borrow her outfit!
And sleep…what’s that? *yawn*
I’ve calculated that I have to go to bed at 10 to get 8 hours of sleep. That’s usually when my night is just getting started!
I know exactly what you mean! I’ve always been a night owl, partly from growing up with teenage siblings who stayed up late (they’re all over a decade older than me), and partly to avoid being awoken by inconsiderate dorm-mates in college and grad school for the past six years. Now that I’m done with school, I have to get up early for work but cannot get myself to bed before midnight at the earliest. If you have any pointers on getting to bed by 10 p.m., I’d love to hear them!
I’m not a mom but I can sympathize with your situation. Midterms in college = not a lot of sleep. Once Thursday is over, it’s break time for me
You can do it!!!
Ugh, that Lulu. I mean, Superwoman. She is just too much.
As a mother myself, I can completely relate. Amen, sista!
Praying for balance, Sarah! God will provide!
(Lulu is HUGE! I know I say that all the time, but she is!)
I love glowing green smoothies from Kimberly Snyder! They are very energizing and helps me cut back on coffee! Get some rest!
I need more green smoothies in my life at the moment too. Lulu dressed as superwoman is too cute!
You are still super woman.
Fact. I am not interested in any rebuttle from you. Thank you ladies and gentleman of the jury.
we all need copious amounts of coffee…green smoothies..and donuts…love!
I love you. The end.
You deserve a break. We all do. Be kind to yourself, sweet friend. Take as much time as you need. <3
So glad you got to enjoy the day! We all need R & R. And Lulu looks so adorable in that cape!
Hahaha, I love this
. Good for you, for taking some time to breathe!
Such a cutie!! I wore that same costume to a Halloween race. Lol.
That is one determined little first. Hope she saves the world today
Oh man… going to bed at 10 is SO HARD!!! It’s the BEST time for me to get to sleep, lest I catch the dreaded “second wind” which will then last until 1am, but for the life of me, do you think I can ever do it?
Once last week I was asleep before 10pm, and while sleep was AMAZING, I think my husband wondered where his 31 year old wife was, and who the 85 year old snoring in his bed was.
Wow, that girl means business! Oh, if only I could wean off the bean! One day.
Donuts will happen tomorrow and we all will survive. = AMEN and yes. Do whatever you need to do for the next two weeks til you have to turn in your manuscript (or forever for that matter, always! do what you need to do), and we will all survive.
Get some sleep, some coffee, and rock your cape
Try maca powder, it gives you lots of energy from nourishment.. Just read it on Brendan’s book.. I’m actually making the switch myself
Love these last two posts – you are a superb mom! You know where your priorities are and I so admire that about you. It’s refreshing to have someone with your influence in a lot of different circles take such a wonderful stand when it comes to your children, husband and your God!
Thanks Sarah for helping us all find more balance in our lives and embracing our “curls”!!
P.S. thanks too for the anniversary wish!!
xoxo
Thanks, Sue. I try. I fail many many days, but as long as I know what comes first (second, third & fourth), I’m encouraged to keep trying. And supportive friends help too. <3
Oh… so comforting to hear that you need to take a break too. I don’t know how you do it all. THANK YOU for hanging up your cape today! It’s a good lesson to all of us. Lulu is adorable! She can be a suprise guest at our house anyday.
Good for you for taking some much needed time to just be. Bonus points if it involves Modern Family, which I am actually currently watching! Now I just need my own super woman to come do some of the chores I’m neglecting.
I’m cheering. Loudly. Especially as I too need 8 hours sleep, less caffeine and more green smoothies and have not quite managed it yet.
You can do it! It works wonders, trust me.
You are, though. x
Forget the cookbook…. where’s Kris Jenner? You need a reality TV show. AND MORE WACKY WEDNESDAY videos!!!! Hint, hint, nudge, nudge…
True, true…
Modern family is the best excuse at putting off doughnuts! Everyone needs to relax a little bit. Super cute pics!
I need time to buy a donut pan anyway! The recipes are piling up….Apple Cider Donuts…Pumpkin Protein Donuts…can’t wait to see what’s next!
Love the last picture of Lulu! And yes, I agree, it’s your day off Mama Pea. Earlier this week you told us that we didn’t really have to do anything, and now it’s your turn!
Yay for you!!! You deserve a break – I don’t know how you accomplish everything you accomplish. (well, yes, I do…you’re passionate about everything you are working on. Amazing what passion allows us to achieve!)
I am sitting here drinking coffee (sorry) and eating my Mama Pea Pumpkin Protein bar with a side of crisp apple slices. At dinner last night my husband said he had made the Peas and Thank You balsamic dressing (so good!) – he was pretty excited that you have a second book coming out. Also, thanks for the hair compliment yesterday – I didn’t respond as it looked like you were swamped with comments but just wanted you to know you made my day.
And you just made mine. <3
Oh gawd I hear you! Burning the candle at both ends is NO fun. It’ll make you sick…literally! I can’t think think of many t hings worse (okay there are a lot) of being sick with two little ones and a LONG to do list! Anyway, good for you! You need a break and it’s well deserved. I enjoy these posts just as much as your recipes!
Pea Daddy has a cold, so I know if I take care of myself, I can fight it off!
Even though you clearly are SUPERWOMAN!!! I honestly believe in product rest. It’s the only way that you’ll be able to maintain your powers lady!
Cute pics and totally understand on needing rest, seems to be an epidemic lately in the blogospere and I’m feeling it too with a crazy schedule and lack of sleep. Enjoy recharging!
Hope you get to soon too!
I need 7-8 hours of sleep every night too. I haven’t figure that one out yet. If I got that, I could easily wean from the bean again too!
It’s been pretty easy to do both the past couple of days. Why do I always fall back into my ways?!
I know what you mean. I’m good for one or two nights and then BAM. Maybe setting a timer to go off at 10 so I know to get my hiney upstairs?
Lulu looks like she would make a great middle school principal in that last pic. I know the days of arranged marriages are supposed to be over, but I have a 5-year-old superhero at home who loves cheese and pickles and I can’t help but think these two would be perfect for each other in about 20 years, lol. He’s going to need someone who can keep him in line. Glad you decided not to further wear yourself out over donuts. Hope you start to feel rejuvenated!
2 nights in a row with 8 hours is starting to help!
I’m a morning person, but I don’t have a chance when Mr. B is a night owl. Lucky to get 5hrs of sleep. To get back some energy, I only drink green tea w/jasmine. It helps, and staying away from sugar, which drags you down. But, none of us are Super Woman, well except for Lulu. Some days things just don’t get done on time, or at all. That’s life…just take care of yourself first, everything else comes later.
Good for you! Enjoy your day with your little super heros!
Enjoy the superwoman and come back when you are ready
Those donuts definitely can wait!!
Please, take all the time that you need. I enjoy your stories just as much as your cooking, so I don’t mind if there are no recipes in your posts. Relax and rejuvenate; we’ll be here when you’re ready.
Thank you, Colleen!
I think you will find this post both relevant and inspirational: http://www.owningpink.com/blogs/owning-pink/i-fill-myself-up-first-declaration. Lissa is one of my beautiful mentors who has helped me come to this realization for myself (well that and bilateral wrist/thumb injuries that meant I literally couldn’t help myself some days).
It might be an unsettling read at first b/c as women we’re told to put everyone else’s needs before our own. I know I got angry when I read it but once I took the time to explore those feelings I realized it was, in fact, a bit of jealousy that she found the strength to make the declaration.
The Universe literally stopped me in my tracks and forced me to slow down and learn to be ok with asking for what I need, whether it was a hug from a co-worker or having my roomie open jars/cut squash/etc.
Take the time for yourself…you’ve been burning bright for so long now. Thank you for honoring yourself and your needs…we’ll get the best of you when you do YOU first! ::hug::
Thank you so much, Kait. I haven’t read the post yet, but I will for sure. In my “me” time
Just passing along the message. Everything happens for a reason, right?
Good for you Mama Pea– Sometimes it takes a super woman to know when to take a break.
Totally understand– glad you’ve got the little one to take up duty for the next while
Do what’s important, we’ll miss you, but we’ll all live and eagerly await your return!!
I love the photos- and the words.
Listen to Superwoman! Enjoy your day with your girls…(and your coffee)!
the only way you can be your best YOU is to make time for yourself- get those 8 hours, spend time with the girls, bake, relax… we will always be here, recipes can wait
YES! And muscles need 8 hours to grow!
Go put your feet up and take a break, Mama!
Done and done!
Take your break–it looks like Superwoman has things under control
You deserve a night off!
That last photo is just perfect..
Enjoy your break!
I am glad you are going to take care of yourself. Donuts definitely can wait. When we have limited energy, it is better to put that energy into green smoothies. Donuts can be made on a day when you have so much help around the house that you don’t know what to do with yourself, right! Your blog is as sweet as ever!
Thank you, kind lady!
Seriously – in a not creepy way – I want to be a fly on the wall of your kitchen for a few days! I choose the kitchen so I can witness those donut making skills of yours and your adorable kids’ hijinks – because isn’t that where everything happens in a home? The kitchen?
PS I hear you on the 8 hours of sleep thing. That’s why I’m not sure I could ever be a mom!
I’d listen to Superwoman. She means business!
Take it easy, Mama!
Here’s me cheering for you, because happy mamas make happy families.
Enjoy your day!
Indeed! Thanks, Jo.
The last picture cracks me up! Hilarious!
Oh she will hate you when the first boyfriend comes around and you whip out these blog posts…
Rock it, Lu! I can’t tell you how much I love this.
The look on that face is priceless.
I’ve never been one for donuts and I’m sure the recipe that you put up will suddenly make me start craving them with every ounce of my being. No doubt. And I’m pretty sure you more than make up for it with that last picture…priceless! ha!
Hoooooray! So proud of you! Thank you for making time to take care of yourself. That’s an important lesson your girls will learn from you as well. Just as important as any other you thoughtfully teach them. Xo!
Lulu is adorable. You seem to balance your on and off days between each other well
You make homemade donuts, which makes you superwoman in my book
Lu is so adorable! I’m glad you decided to unplug and relax for the night, you deserve it!
Modern Family gets me so excited it’s hard to focus on anything else when Wednesday night rolls around.
Love those photos of Lulu.