Make New Friends, But Keep the Old
I did most everything yesterday with the aid of an old friend, my glasses.
I got the fun diagnosis from the optometrist on Friday that I need to wear my glasses primarily for the next three months since I am guilty of overusing my contacts even more than I am overguilty of using my liquid eyeliner and “That’s What She Said” jokes. Can you blame me though?

Like a man in a mid-life crisis, I’ve got a new friend coming in about a week that is supposed to be thinner and more attractive (hard to believe, right?):

But until then, don’t be surprised if you see less and less pictures of me, even though my super powered specs give me the ability to see through walls. Anyone need an x-ray?
Vanity aside, wearing glasses make me feel a lot like Kareem Abdul Jabar as I’m going through my daily activities.

The first activity was a new friend, the Exercise TV workout called “Rock Hard Body–Total Body” led by Marco Reed, and it was BRUTAL. Weighted jumping jacks? Jumprope with dumbbells? Burpees? Can I get an epidural? The glasses stayed put, though, crushing any dreams I had that they would fly off my face and shatter, giving me no choice but to wear my contacts or wander around like a female Mr. Magoo.

After scraping myself off the floor like a chewed up and spat out wad of gum, I sat down to an old friend for breakfast, a green smoothie in a bowl.


- 3 c. spinach
- 1/2 scoop vanilla protein powder
- frozen peaches
- frozen pineapple
- ice
- stevia
Then we headed out so the girls could visit an old friend.

For some of us, it had been far too long since we’d seen our old friends,



and for some of us, it had undoubtedly not been long enough.



That last picture reminds me of every high school dance I went to (have you seen my glasses?!?).
We pried Gigi off her horse, consoled a shook up Lulu and stopped to break bread with an old friend on the way home.


We returned home and Pea Daddy left to spend the evening with some guy friends, while I prepared to host an old friend.
It’s hard to believe I’ve known Susan for over ten years.

We’ve been through a lot together, and I am so glad to still have her in my life.
Sus and I have a tradition of sharing hummus and wine with our girl talk, so tonight was no different.

You may notice our old friend the baby monitor in the background. Perhaps it was nightmares of carousel horses, or maybe she just wondered why Harry Carey in drag was babysitting and what he did with her mother, but Lulu wasn’t going down without a fight.

I did introduce a new friend to the spread, though.

Lemon Rosemary Roasted Chickpeas
- juice of one lemon
- 1 T. olive oil
- 1 t. dried rosemary, chopped
- salt and pepper to taste
- 1 can of chickpeas, drained and rinsed
Combine marinade ingredients in a medium bowl.

Add chickpeas and marinate for at least an hour.

Preheat oven to 375. Spread chickpeas on baking sheet and bake for 25-30 minutes, tossing several times during roasting.

These were amazing! Even Pea Daddy ate a handful and raved when he came home to find Tina Fey hanging out in his living room (I become dramatically more attractive after a glass or two of wine, you see).
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It was a fantastic night. You know you’ve got a good friend if she’ll look at you straight in the eyes and see you for who you really are, even if it’s through three inches of glass.
And um, you should probably get that upper right molar checked…I can see that you might have a cavity.
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about 6 months ago
I’ve been waiting all day for your post bc I wondered which old photo you were pulling out!!
Geez our bangs were HOT!!!
I love our hummus/wine nights, you, and honestly… even your glasses =)
about 6 months ago
I LOVE the flavors of rosemary & lemon and the Lemon Rosemary Roasted Chickpeas sound great!
I think you’re rockin’ out the glasses just beautifully & Skylar has never been on a merry-go-round yet. Your post makes me want to find one!
about 6 months ago
You are so freaking adorable in your glasses. This is weird, but today, I decided to give my eyeballs a break and rock the glasses for the first time in a LONG time. I feel your pain on overuse of contacts. A few years ago, I learned the hard way of proper lens use when I developed a NASTY eye infection that left me on glass ware for 6 months!!!! YUCK! That will teach me!
Have a wonderful day hun!
about 6 months ago
Just love the different reactions between Lulu and Gigi…hahah! And how great you have had a good friend that long and are still super close.
about 6 months ago
I think your glasses are cute!!! But I know what you mean– I’m not a fan of wearing mine either. BUT, I don’t have contact lenses, so instead of wearing my glasses, I just walk around squinting, which looks like I am giving everyone around me the stink eye.
Lovely.
about 6 months ago
Albeit the thick glasses, sounds like a wonderful Sunday. Love catching up with an old friend
about 6 months ago
Those chickpeas look delicious! And just for the record I think you look great in your glasses!
about 6 months ago
I went through a phase a couple summers ago where I suddenly became allergic to the brand of contacts I’d worn for years. I was in my glasses for 8 months!! I’m sure your new specs will look fab
about 6 months ago
You are a dime piece with or without glasses! It’s true!
The pics of Lulu at the carousel make my heart break just a little bit. Poor little pumpkin! As far as the school dance reference goes, 7th and 8th grade all the way.
How lovely that you and Susan had QT together! Wine+hummus…one can never go wrong.
Hope you have a marvelous Monday!! xoxoxo
about 6 months ago
You can overwear contacts? That is seriously distressing.
about 6 months ago
Tina Fey is my inspiration…if only I could look as attractive as her in my glasses. Sorry about your diagnosis…I feel your pain!! But you seriously look great with your glasses on!
When I can’t wear my contacts I usually put a hat on my head and call it a day…
about 6 months ago
You look beautiful with the glasses, don’t worry
And your gren SIAB looks like a work of art this morning!
about 6 months ago
sorry about the news that you have to wear your glasses for a while, but honestly – you look really really good in them! =)
about 6 months ago
I love your blog because of all of the Oregon/Blazers references you make! Always makes me smile when I see Blazers glasses make the pictures. BUT today I was floored when I saw the Linfield pic! I am also a Linfield alum! Go cats!
about 6 months ago
This is hilarious! Loved the post!
I also wanted to say that I feel the same about wearing my glasses (I had to wear them for six months as I transitioned to hard lens contacts from wearing contacts too much and my eyes getting so bad that they don’t make a strong enough power in soft lenses)! And for the record, I think you look fly in your glasses!
about 6 months ago
I love the glasses! I think they look good on you. (I’m biased because I literally can’t wear contacts and have been wearing glasses for 5 years!)
Lemon-rosemary chickpeas? Yum. Do you use canned chickpeas?
about 6 months ago
Mama Pea…you look so young…cannot get over…you are a “cool” mom for sure!
about 6 months ago
It’s an eyeball epidemic, I tell ya! GRR! But let’s not be silly–you look adorable in your glasses and I’m sure the new frames will make you feel even cuter. I’m even wearing 10-year-old frames (!) with a 3-year-old Rx in them and I still got complimented on how I look in them once I started wearing them full time last week. Of course, I’m still Mr. Magoo-ing my way around town, which is not fun, but I’m trying to hold out til my Lasik consultation, at which point ideally the doc will point a remote control at me and everything will be magically fine.
In reality, however, remote control = bill and “fine” in fact = “not fine.” Or maybe fine= fine but only as a synonym for “bill.”
Maybe Kareem would lend me his goggles. They look lighter than my glasses.
about 6 months ago
you’re totally rock’n those glasses. what you tripp’n on woman!?
about 6 months ago
Yeah, I know how you feel. I have worn glasses off and on since 4th grade. I had the huge frames with the swooping bent arms back then. I decided back then that I did not need them. Then it got to the point where I had to wear them. I tried to get contacts and they did not have them for the astigmatism I have (at least not to completely correct my vision). I am afraid of things poking in my eye, so they would have to knock me out for the corrective surgery. So, for now…glasses all the time. I resolve that it covers up my funky face!
about 6 months ago
I have to do the same thing with my glasses!! My eyes freaked out this weekend and I decided that I need to just ride out my glasses. But they’re SLIGHTLY the wrong perscription
about 6 months ago
Ooh the glasses look nice! What brand did you end up going with?
I actually need to wear my glasses MORE. I never wear my contacts except for on special occasions, so it’s either glasses or female Mr. Magoo. Most of the time my vanity wins and I am Magoo.
I ended up just getting a Nine West pair. I needed metal frames and the D&G’s like yours just wouldn’t look great with my prescription. I really liked a pair of Fendi frames, but they were $418 even before the lenses!
about 6 months ago
You pull the glasses off really well! As long as you wear them with confidence you could rock any pair.
about 6 months ago
I wear my contacts basically all the time, except when I am sleeping. Maybe I should take a glasses break too, which would be nice if I had a more stylish pair like yours.
Those lemon roasted chickpeas look delicious! Must buy chickpeas so I can make these soon.
about 6 months ago
Haha, all these glasses make me feel bad for wearing contacts.
That rosemary sounds perfect
about 6 months ago
I was on the same road – my eyes were barely able to handle contacts at all anymore. So I ended up having LASIK and it was the best decision ever. It’s been a year now and it is as though I’ve never had any issues with my sight.
about 6 months ago
“If you were a hot dog, would you eat yourself?!”
That’s the extent of my Harry Carey knowledge.
I feel you on the glasses, I can’t stand mine for more than a couple of hours. Hang in there
about 6 months ago
Chickpeas look great and so does the hot mama in the glasses. I love glasses.
about 6 months ago
I dig the glasses, okay off subject…any protein powder suggestions? Have I asked this before…my memory fails me..
Hey Jill, it totally depends on your dietary needs. I like to rotate between Living Harvest Hemp, Jay Robb Rice Protein and just generic bulk soy protein from the health food store. For overall taste, I really like Jay Robb’s products. I’m pretty sure Heather Eats Almond Butter has a coupon code on her blog. You should check it out!
about 6 months ago
Mama Pea, I think you look sexy smart in your glasses. Wear them with pride my friend.
I want to come over for a girls night and eat hummus. Sound good?
about 6 months ago
P.S. I hate burpees.
about 6 months ago
I don’t see what you see with your glasses on. I truly think they suit you – you look great! With that being said, however, I had lasik back in 2006 and I have yet to regret my decision.
Those chick peas look awesome…I need to make the other ones as well. I need to pull out a can of chickpeas I’ve had sitting in the pantry for way too long!
It’s great that you’ve remained such good friends with Sus for so long. Those kinds of girlfriends are priceless.
about 6 months ago
your sun kissed smoothie in a bowl is definitely a thing of beauty! how fun that you and susan have been able to stay friends over the years. i recently found her blog and she is a doll! have a great week!
about 6 months ago
Stuff like this always makes me feel really ugly for wearing them 24/7/365. But I understand what you mean. *sniffle.*
about 6 months ago
ahhhh love susan – just discovered her blog, and obviously, any friend of mama pea’s i am going to love lots!
ummm those chickpeas have me dreaming up all the flavor combinations i can make with the spices i have at home…hmmm…perhaps italian seasoned with apple pie spice chickpeas?!?!
about 6 months ago
I love that Ravenswood wine! Hummus, wine and friends is a great combination.
about 6 months ago
I have a challenge for you…a lady at my work is selling Girl Scout cookies for her daughter. It’s taking every ounce of strength i have to not order a box of Samoas, I heart those evil things! Since you’re such a snappy inventor…invent me a guilt free Samoa! Praise, accolades, and gifts will follow said miracle.
Oh, I will try my dear friend. I remember you sending me to boxes of Samoas when I was pregnant with Gigi. Sometimes I miss being pregnant!
about 6 months ago
I just did a double take, you look like Kate Beckinsale! You are gorgeous woman, live it up!
about 6 months ago
That chickpea recipe looks AMAZING!!! And you are too cute in your glasses!
about 6 months ago
I hear ya with contact overuse… I got them in 7th grade and there’s been no turning back. I think I’m legally blind now!
That bball photo of you guys is amazing. Seriously, I hope that is framed on your wall somewhere.
about 6 months ago
i need to make chickpeas using your recipe.. last time i tried, they just got mushy
sorry that you’re glasses-bound! that happened to me recently and was no fun.. you look supercute in yours, though
hope you’re having a great night <3
about 6 months ago
This is short and sweet: Burpees–ugh. Glasses look fantastic on you–and roasted chickpeas, YUMMY! You got it going on today
about 6 months ago
Those roasted chickpeas look great!
I think you look adorable in your glasses. People can always tell when I’ve either overslept or am overtired, because I always wear my glasses on those days! Basically, they mean to leave me alone, haha.
about 6 months ago
I can see through walls with my glasses too, no fun. I think you look really cute in yours though!
about 6 months ago
Gah!!! You are so gorgeous- When I saw this post I originally thought that was a picture from lens crafters witha model in glasses.

The green smoothie gets me every time- it looks like a shamrock shake!!
about 6 months ago
those new glasses look like something a certain former alaskan maverick governor might wear!
about 6 months ago
that basketball photo is awesome. i have some equally fantastic pics myself, but hopefully they are buried far far away from my blog, haha
about 6 months ago
Yay for Great Harvest